Being active on the internet is oppressive. You have to be a paragon of virtue or else whatever your current flaws are will haunt you forever, in the form of people who don't understand the concept of change and personal growth, hating on an old version of you. We *have* to get over that impulse. *All* of our pasts are laid bare, now. If there's no dirt to dig up on you, you are an antisocial, conniving, manipulative liar and way more scary than people who used the n-word once before it got, like, SUPER bad to say